Let's do life in a new way.
I know what it’s like to carry around the crushing weight of perfectionism. So do you.
In my former career, I looked great on paper. Checking all the boxes and hitting all the metrics. I was consistently the highest performer on the team, and my bosses always loved me.
But despite how “together” I was on the outside, on the inside I was completely terrified. Like, all the time.
I thought it was just a matter of time until something I did resulted in someone telling me I wasn't good enough and that I no longer belonged. Perhaps even more terrifying, I had no hope that life could look any different, and I beat myself up for not being able to just get it together. The pressure I put on myself continued building until I eventually burned out and quit my job.
And that's when my life coaching journey began. It's as if God said to me, "Daughter, I'm going to teach you a new way to do life." And He has.
Working with my own coach, I’ve done the work of uncovering the stories I started telling myself years ago about what I had to do to stay safe and be successful. I have identified the fears I was running away from and see clearly how I worked harder, ran faster and dug deeper to mitigate for any possible disaster. I have connected the dots between the wounds I experienced as a child and my avoidance of doing anything that exposed me to the possibility of rejection.
Everything finally made sense, and I didn't have to run so hard anymore.
My life looks totally different now: I'm no longer weighed down by expectation, I'm not living in constant fear, I am able to move through emotions in healthy ways and I have so much hope about what my future holds. Most importantly, I am a different mother - healing and whole, I show up fully present and with intention. It's a beautiful thing.
Understanding who you are and why you are who you are allows you to have clarity about who you're becoming and how you get there. As your coach, I will step into the wilderness with you and help you find your footing and learn how to navigate life in a new way.
Imagine if you could bravely make your way in the world as the woman you were created to be. Wow, that's something I'd like to see.
Certified Professional Coach
& Founder, Flourish Coaching
"For nothing will be impossible with God."